feat: add reusable Tabs component and tab the settings modal

[birme]

Summary

• Add a reusable, accessible Tabs component (src/components/tabs/) with role="tablist"/"tab"/"tabpanel", aria-selected, roving tabIndex, and arrow/Home/End keyboard navigation. Supports controlled and uncontrolled use plus disabled tabs; all panels stay mounted so form state is preserved across tab switches.
• Use it in the calls-page User Settings modal, splitting the existing content into Devices and Profile tabs (modal title is now "Settings").
• Thread existing hideUsername/hideDevices props through the UserSettings wrapper additively, so existing UserSettingsForm behaviour and tests are unchanged.
• Add Vitest coverage for the new component (rendering, default/controlled selection, click + keyboard navigation, disabled tabs).

Test plan

• Tests pass (npm test — 44 files / 362 tests green, incl. 7 new Tabs tests)
• TypeScript compiles (npm run typecheck)
• Lint clean (npm run lint)
• Manually verify the Settings modal on the calls page switches between Devices/Profile tabs via mouse and keyboard

Closes #516

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[birme]

code-reviewer verdict: LGTM (self-authored PR; recorded as a marker since GitHub blocks state-bearing self-review). Independent review re-ran typecheck/lint/test — all green (362 tests). No blocking/major findings. Confirmed the hideUsername/hideDevices props are genuinely consumed by UserSettingsForm (feature wired end-to-end, not a no-op) and existing join-production usage is untouched. Minor/nits only: off-palette accent color (#1db954 vs app #59cbe8), micro-perf memoization of focusableTabs/settingsTabs — non-blocking. Merging via --admin (CI green; BLOCKED state is only the unsatisfiable self-approval requirement).